Unraveling Life’s Mysteries

The Ramblings of a Family Man

Nov
14

No Time for Sex…

Posted under How I See It, Wife by Mike

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There I said it and I stand by my words.  There just doesn’t seem to be enough time to consummate my relationship as often as I would like.  Life has just gotten either too busy, too crazy, interrupted or some other priority like catching up on my sleep.

Now this isn’t a complaint coming from an oversexed, misunderstood male.  My wife agrees with me on this subject.  Between her work teaching sixth graders, dealing with three teenagers and their crazy schedules, and obligations with family and friends, this leaves little time for just us.  And when we get that time where no one is around or we have no commitments, we’re both just plain crazy tired.

I remember our days of dating and it just seemed that there was ALWAYS time for sex.  We were just like little rabbits and always found ways of sneaking off to enjoy ourselves.  Now it seems more work to find that time.  What the hell happened? 

Sometime ago, I wrote an article about women’s thongs.  That argument parallels my current situation.  I understand that there is an evolution in any relationship. 

I’m sure that this is just a bump in the road and things will begin to ramp up again.  But thankfully I have this blog to vent my fustration. 

Now if you’ll excuse me, I think it’s time to go find my wife.  And if the moons are aligned, the kids are gone, and we have any energy left, we can get busy…..

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  1. WeaselMomma Said,

    I guess all I can really do is, wish you luck. Good luck!
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  2. OhCaptain Said,

    Dude…I totally understand. We have precious little time for the us part either. Getting back in the saddle will happen. It better ;)
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  3. Cocotte Said,

    This is the story of our lives here as well. It’s frustrating for me because I don’t need as much sleep as Husband, so I’m ready for action at 9:30 pm. He’s just too tired, mentally and physically.
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  4. Jared Said,

    I like the cartoon! I thought maybe I had just put on some pounds…but now I know why my pants don’t fit anymore. They are full of frogs! :D
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  5. terri Said,

    Try having a spouse who works rotating shifts. There’s really only that one week a month when we’re both working days and sleeping at night.
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  6. M@ Said,

    gotta get a date night dude, and your kids are old enough to leave on their own too :)
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  7. Otter Said,

    Like Weasel Momma said, Good Luck. That cartoon cracked me up.
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  8. secret agent woman Said,

    I guess this in the benefit of single life, because I am NEVER too tired for sex.

    I went back to read the thong post – those things are wickedly uncomfortable, but I am a fan of sexy lacy things otherwise. I have never even owned a pair of “granny panties.”
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  9. The End Is Near... | Unraveling Life's Mysteries Said,

    [...] the recent glaring looks I got from my wife, I guess it’s time to change the subject from my sex life.  On to more pressing [...]

  10. this new place Said,

    this happens to us, where after a few days, we go, “HEY WE HAVENT DONE IT SINCE WEDNESDAY! So then, we have to schedule it.
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